This is actually n update of what happen after i posted my blog juz now.....Stefen msg me n ask me if i hated Alister but true enough i sometime hated Alister , then i used one of the verse from the bible that is "Anyone who claims to live in the light but hates his brother is still in darkness.Whoever loves his brother live in the light" n talk to him bout it n explain that if he hate him he will live in darkness in his life. After that , he explain a problem bout being wrong so i use a method of the new life n tell him how to solve it next time which is to solve it between each other if its still not solve , bring a person along for him to determine whose right but if still no result is seen consult a teacher...n he said i m a changed person....now i could use verses to tok to him how to solve his problem luckily got the Holy Spirit help me.....